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Sharon Hundert's avatar

Just so lovely!

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Connie Sommer's avatar

Lovely, Debby. Thank you.

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Debby Waldman-What To Believe's avatar

Thanks, Connie.

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Jill Swenson's avatar

Your Aunt Shirley is someone I would have loved to meet. I am personallyl fascinated to learn of the family connections to the Red River Valley and Metis lineage because of my own research project and I'm curious about the books referenced. I recently enjoyed reading Chris LaTray's memoir BECOMING LITTLE SHELL (His substack is The Irritiable Metis and he is the Montana poet laureate). Thanks for writing your tribute to Aunt Shirley.

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Debby Waldman-What To Believe's avatar

I'll have to check out Chris LaTray's memoir—thanks. I think you're right that you would definitely have liked meeting Auntie Shirley. She was a character.

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frieda wishinsky's avatar

Thank you fir sharing your family in a vivid, personal way.

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Rona Maynard's avatar

What a spark she had. I love “another side of me.” If anyone ever has to clean my bum, I’ll have to remember that line.

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Debby Waldman-What To Believe's avatar

She was a writer herself, so I know she'd be tickled to think you were using her line!

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Anita Jenkins's avatar

This is a wonderful article. I loved reading it. So many women of my generation did not pursue higher education because they were female. And so many who were career women chose not to marry. "Not fair."

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Debby Waldman-What To Believe's avatar

Shirley got the short end of the stick, but she sure made a difference despite that. And what else can we ask for, right? That we made a difference.

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Susan Halpert's avatar

Lovely tribute for a very special woman! I enjoyed reading about this interesting lady’s history.

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Debby Waldman-What To Believe's avatar

Thanks, Susan! (I so appreciate your feedback!)

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